It seems like we’re always waiting for something.
Waiting for an answer, for a direction, for an open door. Waiting for the right person, the right opportunity, the right words.
I think I’m just tired of waiting, of wondering. I’m tired of thinking that one day we’re all just going to wake up and have it figured out. As if we will suddenly know who we’re supposed to be, what we’re supposed to do, and that we will possess the bravery to do it.
I don’t know what you’re waiting for, but if it’s a sign you’re in need of, consider this yours.
You’re never going to be ready. You’re never going to have the perfect answers and the color-coded map that guarantees you won’t get lost. But not making a decision is making one. I’ve learned that this year if I’ve learned nothing else. If you refuse to choose, to change, to try, to explore, you’ve made the decision to keep things exactly as they are.
Don’t let fear make your choice.
Don’t let it decide to keep you comfortably inside the lines. You’re not made for a life consisting of waiting rooms and Netflix.
Make a choice. Do whatever it is that you’re trying so carefully to weigh and plan. Let go of the questions about what if, how, and what if I look like a fool?
Well, if you end up looking insane, then you can just e-mail me and join my little club. It’s called the I-do-at-least-fifteen-things-a-week-that-make-me-shake-my-own-head-and-cringe-and-laugh-at-myself club. It’s a mouthful, but we’ve got each others backs, we go on unexpected adventures, scream loudly in the car and eat a lot of peanut butter.
Do something risky and if you fall on your face, come sit here with me and just know that you are not alone or stupid for trying.
In fact, I’m thinking of changing our name to i’m-ridiculous-but-at-least-stuff-happens club (we accept checks, so that’s a little shorter for the pity donations that might start rolling in).
The reality is, you don’t want to spend a lifetime waiting, toiling, and wringing your hands, trying to make a decision. Decide to do the unexpected, the difficult, the crazy, the thing that will make for a good story at Thanksgiving. Be someone who has something worth saying, stories worth telling, a life that leads to having books written and songs strummed.
Just do whatever it is that seems so incredibly scary, irrational or uncertain right now. Just do it unapologetically and decide that whatever the outcome, you’re just going to laugh. That whether it’s good or awful, whether it’s what makes you famous or infamous, just decide that you’re going to take yourself out to lunch and laugh hysterically at how brave and hopeful you were. (Trust me, it’s a lot more fun and a lot less tragically pathetic than it sounds.)
We need a world full of people who celebrate hope, possibility, bravery, courage, guts. People who finally said, “I’m not made for always taking a number, standing in line, waiting for the perfect moment”.
This is your permission slip. Chin up, it’s time that you take that trip, or make that dinner reservation, or leave that voicemail with your shaky apology.
The reality is, you’re not just going to wake up with a rush of bravery. You can’t cash in all your saved cool points to ensure that everything will work out just right.
It’s going to take deciding that whatever the worst outcome, it’s not enough to break you. You’ll survive, you’ll grow. Maybe one day you’ll be courageous enough to let it be a permission slip for others to take some chances.
When people are around me, I want them to feel like they’ve been given an all-access pass to becoming fully alive and fully present. I want them to feel the permission to embrace all that the room they’re in has to offer.
So, whatever it is that’s got you so wrapped up right now, whatever decision, situation, person, opportunity, just know that it’s okay to throw your heart out there. It will be alright if you risk looking like you’ve completely lost your mind.
If it happens, I’ll be here with you. I’ll be here in this little cafe, writing stories and bleeding hope and laughing about all the times I’ve learned the benefits of choosing to be brave.
After all, people who aren’t afraid to take some chances are the reasons why we’re all still here.
I’d rather be brave than spend my days waiting for the perfect moment, waiting between white walls and hoping someone will finally call my number.
You might stumble, or get stared at, or still end up watching Netflix on Friday by yourself. But if you’re ready to take some chances, just know you won’t be alone. There’s a little club here on the other side of this screen that’s cheering you on and loves hearing your stories.
11 thoughts on “I’d Rather Be Brave”
Thank you! I’ve always wanted to hear this and have someone tell me, “just go do it! Who cares if you look like a fool!” Do you want to live a life full of “oh wells” or a life with “what ifs”? I rather choose the former! You’ve inspired me to just do what I want regardless of what my friends or family think. I’m doing something for me. Something that’s going to bring me closer to what I love to do more than what’s holding me back.
Thanks for this! Thanks for writing! And most important thanks for being you!
This made my day!!! Thanks for being you!!!!
This is great! I’ve really been working on being brave lately, and as I’ve started it feels so good!
This is my favorite because.. I’ll try to word this right, Bravery is my thing. I like taking chances, but sometimes I get scared.. I have a little ring that says “Dauntless” which is my reminder to be brave everyday, but sometimes I forget.. So thank you for that reminder 🙂
Thank you for this! After my crazy, God-filled summer I have felt like I am stuck in a waiting period while back on campus. I get so caught up in my schedule, my job, and my to do list, that I see myself as sitting on the sidelines. But this reminded me that I can be brave and take some chances while back at school as well! This brings to mind the story of Esther and being “called for such a time as this.” Thanks for the encouragement!
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thanks for sharing this! God bless 😀