If I hadn’t decided to become President of the United States, I’m quite certain I would have settled on becoming a professional boxer.
I once asked for a punching bag for Christmas. While in hindsight, that probably should have been cause for concern, it seemed perfectly normal at the time.
I’ve always been a fighter.
I don’t remember a time in my life when I wasn’t fighting something: injustice, pain, grief, feelings, God, people…
Lately, I’ve been trying to put my gloves down; because it seems my fighting has sometimes caused more problems than it’s solved. Fighting is my gut reaction; it’s always been my default answer, how does a person get rid of that?
God caught me in my car today. I was tightening my fists on the steering wheel, my shoulders were tensing and I was thinking of all the things I want to say or do, the things I wish I knew how to handle right now. I tried to shove it out and down. I kept telling myself, stop fighting, you’re not allowed to be a fighter anymore.
“You’re just fighting the wrong things…” He said it so calmly.
My grip eased, “What should I be fighting?” I asked.
Fight the fear. Fight the insecurity. Fight the walls you build.
Stop fighting the people that intimidate you, tear you down. Stop fighting the people that you’re desperately seeking approval from. Stop fighting people and start fighting the problem.
Fight the need to be right. Fight the fact that you hate to be weak. Fight the laziness. Fight the apathy. Fight your perfectionist tendencies. Fight the need to prove yourself. Fight the lies that have been stuck to you since you were little.
It seems that God hasn’t been trying to take the fighter out of me, but now He’s showing me the right things to fight.
We don’t escape who we are; we can’t run from it or push it down. I’m a fighter and I’ll always be one. And sometimes that serves the world in beautiful ways. So, I’m learning how to overcome the weaknesses that accompany that, without losing the good parts of who I really am.
Whatever those things are that often seem to weigh you down and create pain in your life are likely something that God put in you for a really good reason. Those parts of you that you can’t shake, those glaring weaknesses, maybe it’s because they also have the potential to be some of the best parts of you.
Don’t lose the good parts. I think that’s what I’m getting at. Don’t throw out the good just because everyone (including you) is so disheartened and fearful of the bad. There’s no part of your weakness where God can’t show up with His strength.
3 thoughts on “Don’t Lose The Good Parts”
Love your journey. You’re beautiful!!
Beautifully written and just what I needed today! Thank you!!
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Time to fight the right battles.